Emory got some blood from Sarah and I for additional testing regarding the possible kidney transplants. While I am still waiting to hear if everyone's blood all matches up, I received an approval letter from Social Security. I'm officially disabled! Haha I don't know whether to laugh or cry. The Administrative Law Judge reviewed my case and approved it without the need for a hearing. But I am on the verge of receiving a transplant, which would (hopefully) change me back to being un-disabled (at least in regards to my End Stage Renal Failure).
Although, SS also approved me on the problem with my back and legs. So I gotta get all that fixed up too.
One step at a time.
My life is different than your life. I need a new kidney. I didn't say "better" or "worse." My life is just different. My needs are different than yours and my perspective is different than yours. So this is my space to share these with you.
Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Thursday, March 7, 2013
The Most Amazing Phone Call
It was a dark and stormy night. No, wait that's not it. Let me start over...
The phone rang on a regular Tuesday night. (It really was storming at the time) At first, I didn't understand what she was saying. Our home phone doesn't have caller ID, so I never know who is calling us. I could tell that it was my sister, but it took me a minute to understand her because she was so excited and screaming. Then I heard her. "Erica from Emory called because they found a match and they want to know how fast I can get my bloodwork done to double-check the crossmatch." Me: "They WHAT?" Sarah: "Jenny, there's a match, you are getting your kidney!" Me: "I'M GETTING A KIDNEYYYYY!!!" Mark was upstairs, and I wanted to make sure he heard me (probably along with the neighbors in a 4-house radius) "I'M GETTING A KIDNEYYYYY!!!!" OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG
So, Sarah will be donating a kidney to someone she doesn't even know so that I can receive a kidney from someone who doesn't know me. This is all from Emory's Paired Donor Exchange Program. I don't know if it is just one other pair of people that will swap with Sarah and I or if more pairs are involved. It could be local people or it could be people from clear across the country. I hope I can find out more soon.
I wish I knew when it will happen and how long to expect to wait. But I don't know anything else. I hope this is it. I know that things can fall through, I know that sometimes the double-check discovers something that will call it all off. But I don't want it to happen unless this is my perfect kidney. And also for the other recipient(s) involved. I don't want Sarah's life-saving and completely selfless act to be for naught. I want the person who receives Sarah's kidney to go on and live a long and healthy life. And I also want that for me. I want to raise my children and see them grow up and have children of their own. I want to grow old with Mark. And I want to be DONE with dialysis!
As soon as the phone rings again, I'll post more. Until then, I'll be over here praying.
The phone rang on a regular Tuesday night. (It really was storming at the time) At first, I didn't understand what she was saying. Our home phone doesn't have caller ID, so I never know who is calling us. I could tell that it was my sister, but it took me a minute to understand her because she was so excited and screaming. Then I heard her. "Erica from Emory called because they found a match and they want to know how fast I can get my bloodwork done to double-check the crossmatch." Me: "They WHAT?" Sarah: "Jenny, there's a match, you are getting your kidney!" Me: "I'M GETTING A KIDNEYYYYY!!!" Mark was upstairs, and I wanted to make sure he heard me (probably along with the neighbors in a 4-house radius) "I'M GETTING A KIDNEYYYYY!!!!" OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG
So, Sarah will be donating a kidney to someone she doesn't even know so that I can receive a kidney from someone who doesn't know me. This is all from Emory's Paired Donor Exchange Program. I don't know if it is just one other pair of people that will swap with Sarah and I or if more pairs are involved. It could be local people or it could be people from clear across the country. I hope I can find out more soon.
I wish I knew when it will happen and how long to expect to wait. But I don't know anything else. I hope this is it. I know that things can fall through, I know that sometimes the double-check discovers something that will call it all off. But I don't want it to happen unless this is my perfect kidney. And also for the other recipient(s) involved. I don't want Sarah's life-saving and completely selfless act to be for naught. I want the person who receives Sarah's kidney to go on and live a long and healthy life. And I also want that for me. I want to raise my children and see them grow up and have children of their own. I want to grow old with Mark. And I want to be DONE with dialysis!
As soon as the phone rings again, I'll post more. Until then, I'll be over here praying.
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